Tuesday, April 14, 2009

Why do we read Quran, even if we can't understand asingle Arabic word???? This is a beautiful story..
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An old American Muslim lived on a farm in the mountains ofeastern Kentucky with his young grandson. Each morningGrandpa was up early sitting at the kitchen table readinghis Quran. His grandson wanted to be just like him andtried to imitate him in every way he could.One day the grandson asked, "Grandpa! I try to readthe Quran just like you but I don't understand it, andwhat I do understand I forget as soon as I close the book.What good does reading the Qur'an do?"The Grandfather quietly turned from putting coal in thestove and replied, "Take this coal basket down to theriver and bring me back a basket of water."The boy did as he was told, but all the water leaked outbefore he got back to the house. The grandfather laughed andsaid, "You'll have to move a little faster nexttime," and sent him back to the river with the basketto try again. This time the boy ran faster, but again thebasket was empty before he returned home. Out of breath, hetold his grandfather that it was impossible to carry waterin a basket, and he went to get a bucket instead.The old man said, "I don't want a bucket ofwater; I want a basket of water.. You're just not tryinghard enough," and he went out the door to watch the boytry again.At this point, the boy knew it was impossible, but hewanted to show his grandfather that even if he ran as fastas he could, the water would leak out before he got back tothe house. The boy again dipped the basket into river andran hard, but whenhe reached his grandfather the basket wasagain empty. Out of breath, he said, "See Grandpa,it's useless!" "So you think it is useless?" The old man said,"Look at the basket."The boy looked at the basket and for the first timerealized that the basket was different. It had beentransformed from a dirty old coal basket and was now clean,inside and out. "Son, that's what happens when you read theQur'an. You might not understand or remember everything,but when you read it, you will be changed, inside and out.That is the work of Allahin our lives."
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Ten way to be Happy and Make Happy


The ten ways to stay happily married are:
1. Stay spontaneous
Do something that looks unplanned such as dropping in to your partner's office and taking him to lunch, packing a little gift in his briefcase or getting tickets to a concert or the theatre.
2. Make loving gestures
While having dinner, you can put on soft music, light candles and tell your partner how much you've been thinking of him/her during the day.
3. Make eye contact
Face your partner when he/she is speaking to you. Eye contact makes you feel more connected.
4 Agree to disagree
Try and avoid arguments with your partner. Next time you disagree, shock him/her in the nicest possible way by saying: 'You're right.'
5 Embrace change
Surprise your partner by getting a new look. A quick and easy way to do this could be to dye your hair, restyle it or get a wig for fun.
6 Do something unexpected
Offer to do something your partner won't expect, like sensually washing his/her hair in a candlelit bath or having a warm towel ready when he/she steps out of the shower.
7 Celebrate your love
Do something symbolic such as planting a special bush or buying a pot plant that is your partner's favourite variety and let him/her know that it represents your love.
8. Do a favour
Try one little chore that benefits your partner directly, such as dropping his laundry at the dry cleaners. Such things take only minutes but show how much you care.
9 Cosy up to your rival
If there's someone in your partner's life you consider to be a rival, such as his best friend or mother, stop arguing about them and surprise your partner by inviting them over for a lovely dinner.
10 Relive the past
Looking at holiday snaps, family photos or wedding pics can also help in making a relationship stronger. (ANI)